When Pope Benedict XVI warned about the danger of “gender theory” in December 2012
, most people were unaware of the inroads made by gender theory, the dangers it presents, and the social pathologies it has generated. Part of the confusion lies in the fact that there are several different theories of gender, each of which is based on a false understanding of the truth about the human person and a detachment of language from reality. The various theories promote among other things:
Gender theories are not logically consistent
- Distinguishing gender as a socially constructed role separate from biological sex;
- Mainstreaming the gender perspective;
- Expanding human rights to include sexual and reproductive rights;
- Taking gender identity disorder out of the list of psychological disorders;
- Adding sexual orientation and gender identity and expression to anti-discrimination laws;
- Supporting the demand for ‘sex change’ surgery;
- The affirmation of ‘queer’ as a gender.
and are continually changing, making it difficult for those who try to critique them. This should not be surprising; those pushing the various gender theories reject the massive evidence for real sex differences. While reality remains stable, gender theory, alienated as it is from reality, is continually morphing into ever more bizarre forms. Its adherents are making ever more radical demands.
Those pushing these theories appeal to our compassion. Although we must resist their theories, we must remember that their creators are men and women who have themselves been alienated from their own natures, thereby embracing that alienation and creating theories to rationalize their behavior and desires. Reading their own comments, one can see the ways in which they have suffered trauma and rejection, and how they long for acceptance – but only on their terms. The defenders of reality cannot accept the demand that their alienated experience be treated as equal to reality. Compassion requires – in spite of their objections – the affirmation of their true manhood and womanhood and the reality of sex difference. Therapy and early interventions should be available; however, many of those confused about their sexual identity reject therapy.
It is also important to note that the promoters of the various gender theories claim to have science on their side and frequently reference published studies. However, careful analysis of these studies reveals that many of them do not meet the standard for well designed, statistically valid, and projectable research. Their authors often employ small, unrepresentative samples and controls, fail to ask the right questions, and sometimes ignore their own findings. Unfortunately, the media and certain professional organizations continue to promote this material while ignoring large, well-designed studies which refute the claims of gender theory. Consider two articles published in Social Science Research
– one by Mark Regnerus
(“How different are the adult children of parents who have same-sex relationships?
”) and the other by Loren Marks (“Same-sex parenting and children’s outcomes: A closer examination of the American Psychological Association’s brief on lesbian and gay parenting
”). The APA brief references poorly designed studies and made unsupportable statements. These articles refute the claim that having a parent with same-sex attraction does not negatively affect children. It is important to never to take a footnote as proof of a claim, but always read the full text of the referenced material. John Money’s redefinition of gender
as socially constructed roles was taken up by radical Marxist-influenced feminists. It is important to remember that this strain of feminism is very different from women who simply want to defend themselves against unjust discrimination. What these ideologically driven feminists wanted was a sex-class revolution.
Radical feminists promoted Money’s theory as proof that the differences between men and women were not natural, but socially constructed by an oppressive, patriarchal culture. It seemed very convincing. Mothers of boys and girls who saw for themselves were often skeptical of Money’s assertion that a genetic boy could be transformed into a girl with no negative side effects. Money’s twin case, however, appeared to offer incontrovertible evidence that socialization could override biology.
The radical feminist agenda combined his concept of gender identity as socially constructed with the Marxist idea that all history is the history of class struggle. According to their gender theory, the first class struggle was between men and women, and women were the first oppressed class. They furthermore claimed that all social differences between men and women were not natural, but made up by men to oppress women. According to this gender theory, the way to eliminate the oppression of women was to eliminate all social differences between men and women. This would be achieved by mainstreaming a gender perspective under which any societal recognition of the differences between men and women would be labeled a stereotype and eradicated. Quotas would be imposed so that men and women would participate in every activity in society in statistically equal numbers and receive statistically equal power and rewards. Any deviation from absolute statistical equality would be regarded as evidence of sexist discrimination. The problem with this is that it failed
to distinguish between stereotypes, which do limit women’s ability to participate as equals in society, and real differences between men and women which should be acknowledged. Equality of rights, equal treatment under the law, equal opportunity, and equal access to education are important goals; however, in some very important areas, men and women are different, and if allowed to freely choose which activities to participate in, they will not arrive at absolute equality. Given freedom, a percentage of women will choose to make motherhood their primary vocation, either leaving the workforce to devote themselves to their children or choosing jobs which allow them more time with their families. Thus, fewer women will participate in paid work and a percentage of those who do will work shorter hours in less demanding fields, and in the aggregate receive lower wages. The radical feminists were well aware of this, and they pressured governments to institute policies which would force women out of the home and into the workforce. Behind the gender perspective are anti-motherhood policies that are fundamentally anti-woman, anti-child, and anti-family. For example, at the Beijing UN Conference on Women, there was not one positive reference to motherhood, marriage, or husbands was nowhere to be found in the official documents of the conference, but “gender” – as in “mainstreaming the gender perspective” – appeared over 300 times.
At the UN Conference in Cairo in 1994, a paper was circulated outlining a strategy for forwarding the demands for sexual and reproductive rights by twisting the meaning of universally accepted human rights. If the goal is the total elimination of sex difference, then the most obvious difference between men and women is the undeniable fact that if a man and a woman engage in sexual relations, only the woman can become pregnant. To make women the same as men in this regard, women had to be able to have sexual relations and not be pregnant. Contraception and abortion became the sine qua non
of the feminist revolution. To achieve this, they demanded the recognition of what they termed sexual and reproductive rights – namely, unfettered access to contraception and abortion, absolute sexual freedom for children and adults, and comprehensive sex education – which, besides pushing contraception, abortion, and absolute sexual freedom at every level, also taught students that any non-positive comments about homosexuality were evidence of homophobia and bigotry.